Jane Hartle
Died: April 6, 2022 | Place: Victoria Hospital, London
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HARTLE, Jane…
Our Lovely Jane
“Be curious, not judgemental.” We did not know the Walt Whitman quote until Ted Lasso, which we so enjoyed watching together, but that phrase epitomizes Jane’s approach to life. As a little girl, her mother would tell her that she asked too many questions. Jane continued to ask questions throughout her life, which was recognized several times by the doctors at the London Health Sciences Centre, where she spent her final days.
She was never more curious than when it came to people. Combined with lack of judgement, it made her so easy to spend time with. Jane listened carefully and always received answers to her questions with interest, genuine concern and empathy. Those who knew her loved her for it. Curiosity also led Jane to pursue an eclectic list of accomplishments. She became well-known as a “foodie” among her family and friends, preparing elaborate and beautiful meals from cultures all around the world. She was a wonderful gardener (plants also loved her), photographer, painter and rug hooker. She had a strong sense of colour that guided her in all of these endeavours. She took an active interest in interior design, which was a natural extension of her work as a visual display artist in retail. Jane had the soul of an artist. She never wanted anything to be less than the best she could make it.
Jane skied all her life from the age of three, and was a controlled and elegant skier. As a young woman, she spent a winter in Banff as a “ski-bum.” She was also a competent cross-country skier. She loved to swim, (“I’m a swimmer,” she would say), especially in the North Channel when we cruised there by sailboat and in Lake Huron in front of our home, “The Anchorage.” She biked, she hiked, she walked, she kayaked and she loved to do yoga.
However, Jane’s greatest passion was her family. She met me, Rob, when she had just turned 20 and ours was a love story from the first moment we met. She was simply the best wife, friend, partner, confidant, lover and believer. Jane grew from a beautiful and stylish young woman into a classy lady and I was so proud of her. She was a loving, nurturing mother to our children, Matt and Jocelyn. Jane was also a daughter to Margaret and Joe; a sister to Tom (and Sioux); and an aunt to Winston, Luke, Ivan, Hannah and Ryley.
When Matt left us, almost ten years ago, it was a crushing blow, but Jane was able to reinvent herself in the community of Lion’s Head, making new friends and pursuing new interests. The world would do well to have more Janes. Curiosity and kindness are her legacy.
Arrangements entrusted with A. Millard George Funeral Home, 519-433-5184. Online condolences, memories and photographs shared at www.amgfh.com
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Dear Rob and Jocelyn,
We were shocked and sorrowed to learn of Jane’s passing and our heartfelt condolences are extended to you both and your families. There are no words that can properly express our feelings for you as you struggle to cope with the devastating and untimely loss of such a beautiful soul . Hopefully you can feel the virtual hugs and love being sent your way. You are in our thoughts and prayers. With Our Sincerest Sympathy, Sue and Ross Cochrane
Our condolences can’t come close to how we feel for your loss Rob and Joss.
My friend, my sister in heart. Our friendship for 30yrs. Jane will always be my roomie, confidante and a true lady I call my friend.
I wish (Joss) I had a time machine! The love she has for you and your brother only, a mother could love that way. She knows how brave and strong you are remember that, and fly.
The love for you for over 40yrs Rob was, undeniable. She always spoke of her respect and her loyalty to you and your children.
A beautiful lady, friend, mother and wife all of which Jane did so effortlessly and with pure love.
Our warmest hugs and love for both of you during this, very difficult time.
Love Shari and Randy
We have lost a kind and loved friend who is irreplaceable.
My deepest sympathies to Rob and Joss.
Forever yours,
Suzanne
Probably my oldest and longest-running memory of Jane was her laugh. It was so unique – light and airy and joyful. It punctuates every recollection of our family visits. My heart breaks to know I won’t hear it again.
Rob and Joss – words can’t express my sadness at her passing. I hope there is some comfort for you in the knowledge that she will be remembered by everyone who knew her with fondness and love – beautiful echos of a wonderful person that will endure long after this difficult moment.
Love you both,
Winston
My thoughts and heart are with you during this time. I am so sorry.
I have lost one of my dearest friends, and will cherish our memories together for the last 30 years. Her giggle was infectious and I’ll never forget our trips to Florida. We adapted to the change when you moved, from working out at the YMCA daily, to now our weekly phone chats.
Jane was the most loving and caring person.
Her beautiful presence will always be with me and I am grateful for our time together.
Love Eternally…
Kim
We are so sorry for your loss Rob. We remember the years gone by with fond memories. The friendship with you and Jane meant so much in those years. Know that we have you in our thoughts.
We were so sorry and shocked to hear Jane had passed away. We both still cannot believe she is no longer with us. She was such a lovely person and we are privileged to have met her.
Words cannot express the sadness we feel for your loss nor can they ease the pain you must be feeling now. You are always very much in our thoughts.
We remember our first meeting at Galley Bay, Antigua in 2006, then at Pineapple Beach, Antigua and not forgetting our wonderful visit to your beautiful home on Lake Huron. Such fantastic memories were made.
We will always cherish her memory and let it live on.
Love Terrie and Paul
The loss of Jane is still beyond belief. Being a close friend of Rob, Jane also became a treasured friend as I was so honored to stand up at their wedding. They exemplified what a truly loving relationship can be all while showing that same love and care to their many friends and admirers. Jane, you have been like a sister to me, have supported and encouraged myself and many others thru all sorts of challenges. I miss you.
Love from myself and all the Jordans that adore you.
Rob and Joss ..words cannot express how my heart hurts for you
Dear Rob, Jocelin, and family,
The news of Jane’s passing was a shock to all of us. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Thoughts and prayers for you to find peace that Jane is now free of suffering, rejoining Matt, and watching over you with love.
My comfort is I still have Jane’s gift when she moved away from Kitchener and we were still keeping in touch through FB.
We all have Jane’s beautiful soul in our heart forever!
Big hugs to you.
Jane was my yoga student for about 8 years. We came to know and respect one another through our shared love of yoga. I will remember Jane as a very generous, genuine and kind human being. Despite some physical difficulties she showed up to class ready to practice, ready to do what she could, always smiling. Her beautiful smile resonated her warm and thoughtful heart. When I heard of her passing I cried and felt an overwhelming grief. I know that I am not alone in these sentiments. She will be missed in our very special yoga community. I am truly very sorry Rob and Jocelyn for your loss. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time.
Dear Rob and family
We are deeply saddened to hear of Jane’s passing. My your cherished memories and the love you share give you strength to cope with this devasting loss. You have our heartfelt sympathy.
Doug and Lynda
Tamarac Neighbours
Jane
I have witnessed so many wonderful times with Jane, her wedding to Rob, their beautiful children Matt and Joss throughout the years, their visits on the West Coast and my visit to their home in Ontario. All of which I will hold as treasured memories.
Jane will always be missed but her laugh and that sparkle in her eye will never fade.
Love you Jane.
Barb
Our sincere condolences go out to Rob, Jocelyn and the entire family.
Those words, though heartfelt, are, of course, completely inadequate to measure up to the shock and grief we feel at the cruel, sudden loss of Jane, a dear and devoted friend for many years.
We wish we could shoulder some of the immense pain that Janes loved ones and now having to bear.
Sadly, all we have to offer is our love and unending support for them.
It was a privilege to share the path of life with Jane and her family. Her kindness, insight, talent and sparkling personality left an indelible impression in us, that can never be erased.
The sudden passing of our beloved friend created an immense hole in our spirit, that nothing can ever really fill.
We, the living, can only take comfort in the fact that Jane will never really leave us, she will live in our heart and mind forever.
Rob and Family
We were shocked and so sorry to hear of Jane’s passing. Sending our sincere condolences to you and your family. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers! Tracy and Dan Hill and Family Tamarac Neighbors
Dear Rob and Jocelyn, I am extremely sorry for your loss. I only knew Jane for a few years. Although our friendship was one of authenticity. We enjoyed the forest together. Sharing many cups of tea and our life journeys together. A beautiful soul. I will miss her…until we meet again my friend…rest in peace
So saddened by this news. My heart goes out to Rob, and your entire family. Jane was such a kind and beautiful soul. Kelly also sends her condolences at this time. Cancer is so cruel and devastating. I just saw the two of you 2 short months ago.
Jane will be truly missed by many.
Love Skot
Dear Rob and Jocelyn,
Jane was a glamorous, genuine lady who showed strength and loving care with everyone and everything she did. I was privileged to be a friend and we shared wonderful moments together sharing our life stories, sketching and hiking, rug hooking, shopping , yoga and sampling her cooking. I cannot believe she is gone so soon. May she rest peacefully. Love Julie Heinrichs
Rob and Joss, words can’t express how sorry and sad I am to learn of Jane’s death. I am still in disbelief and sad to know that we will not see each other again. I met Jane when you first moved to Kitchener and starting to decorate your Pioneer Park home, Matt was just a busy toddler and Joss a tiny beautiful infant. Absolutely gorgeous family, we would end up working together on many of your home projects, your move to Roseville, then shortly after my family also moved to Roseville and we became neighbours. It was always a pleasure to work with Jane and Rob in making their homes a reflection of their personalities. Jane was a beautiful lady with impeccable taste and i enjoyed my tea visits with her when we were working on the various renovations and their dream home. Her gardens were always a showpiece. She will be remembered as beautiful inside and out. I am sure she is now hugging Matt whom she missed so dearly. Rest In Peace Dear Friend.
This is so hard to do, because writing this means we must accept that it is true, we have lost Jane – a devastating loss that will leave a void in many souls.
Jane would be concerned for all of us grieving; that her passing had caused such consternation and sadness, because though Jane was part of many things, she never placed herself in the centre of any of them. I believe she would be sad and likely dismayed to be the centre of this grief. And yet it is our compounded grief that bears witness to Jane’s nurturing soul and to our love and appreciation of her.
I have such belief that the beautiful essences of Jane and Matt have reunited, and that their energies are together watching over Rob and Jocelyn, all four forever intertwined.
I am so grateful for the wonderful visit we shared with Jane and Rob last fall. That, along with so many other memories of Jane over forty years will be in my heart always.
Rest in peace Jane, you are deeply loved now and forever.
Sioux and Tom
My deepest condolences to Jane’s family. I was her most recent hairstylist in Owen Sound.
Jane was an interesting woman and client. After reading her husband’s tribute with the quote ‘be curious, not judgemental’ – I thought, this is Jane. Always curious, always classy, always loving life and all her life could offer. I dedicated tonight’s yoga practice to Jane. May she Rest In Peace and be curious watching from above.
My sincere condolences Rob and Jocelyn. I was reading the newspaper and saw Jane’s obituary. It was so beautifully written and the love for her is evident in your detailed story about her. May you be open to the signs she gives you, she is watching over you.
It is with great sadness to hear about Jane’s passing. We will always remember Jane as a kind and loving person. Our sincerest condolences to Rob, Jocelyn and Family.
I’m so sorry to hear of this tremendous loss, Joss and Rob. Hold your memories close. Thinking of you
I am so terribly sorry to hear of Jane’s passing. We were friends in high school and she introduced me to my first job as an Avon lady. Jane was the most classy young person I knew. Fun to be around. I last saw Jane at our 30th reunion. I send my deepest condolences to Rob, Jocelyn and family.
Heather Peacock
We are so sorry to hear about your lovely wife Jane. We always enjoyed her lively spirit on the dock! We are praying for both you and Jocelyn. Our kids Kevin and Jaclyn send their condolences as well. God bless you Rob and take care of yourself.