At his residence on Thursday, February 20, 2014, Gord Zelinski of London in his 53rd year. Loving father of Alex and Liam. Missed by Carla Mitchell. Cherished son of Janet and Edward Zelinski. Beloved brother of Sharon Zelinski. Dear uncle of Betty and Lily and son-in-law of Caroline. Cremation has taken place. A memorial gathering will be held from 2-4 and 7-9 pm on Tuesday, February 25, 2014, at the A. Millard George Funeral Home, 60 Ridout Street South, London. Online condolences, memories and photographs shared at www.amgfh.com
We will miss your laugh and culinary delights. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Liam and Alex and family.
Susan Birkwood
February 23, 2014 at 8:31 pm
I knew Gord many years ago when we were both volunteers at the campus radio station. I always appreciated his generosity and great sense of humour. My condolences to his family.
Anonymous
February 24, 2014 at 3:23 am
You were an amazing father, because of that no matter how difficult this is your sons get to walk away with your love, for now and for always.
My sympathies to all
Laura Pate (Brady)
February 24, 2014 at 6:06 am
Brought to immediate tears to think that this vibrant man with the infectious laugh has left us. Heart felt condolences to all who knew him. Hugs to Alex and Liam.
Scott and Elizabeth Guidolin
February 24, 2014 at 7:55 am
We have known Gord for many years though Scott and Gord’s hockey, Gord’s impromptu visits to our home when we lived in Old South, and the times we would sit and chat he was visiting a medical office in my office building as a pharma rep. He was always ready to share that laugh! Please accept our sincerest sympathies.
Vicki and Bruce Hambly
February 24, 2014 at 11:13 am
Alex, Liam and Carla:
We are so very sorry to hear of Gord’s passing. His smile was like the sun coming out. The world is a little darker now. Our thoughts are with you.
The Hambly’s
Phil King
February 24, 2014 at 12:24 pm
I knew Gord for more than 25 years, and I always enjoyed his company, his friendship and his great sense of humour. I will miss him.
My sincere condolences.
Crawford Kilpatrick
February 24, 2014 at 12:24 pm
Alex, Liam, and Carla – I am saddened by the news of Gord’s passing. I truly enjoyed working with him so many years ago at Chancey’s – he was always positive, friendly, and a joy to work with. He will be missed…
Bob Kayser
February 24, 2014 at 1:11 pm
I am truly saddened to learn of Gord’s passing. A bright light has gone out. I always felt better after I had visited with Gord and his positive joy of life in which he accomplished so much and gave back so easily.
My thoughts are with his extended family at this time of their loss.
Dawit Negash
February 24, 2014 at 1:15 pm
I’m so sorry for your loss. Gord was a great man, and a great friend. I will miss him very much.
He was always so very generous and a joy to be around. He helped many people, and I truly enjoyed his companionship.
Carla
February 24, 2014 at 1:22 pm
Oh Gord, what can I say? Well thank you for the family we shared, I will miss you more than I can say. That said we get to celebrate Alex and Liam, and on that note you were an exceptional father and I will love you for that for the rest of my time. Catch you later, xo
Ben and Romola Porchuk
February 24, 2014 at 1:28 pm
Gord was introduced to us by a good friend living on his street, several years ago, at an impromptu road hockey game on an unusually warm Easter Monday afternoon. At first I thought, “Man this guy seems cocky and…is he really teasing me?” Then I realized after the game that he was just doing his part for his team in getting under my skin!
As many have said, Gord was filled laughs and lots of good stories (some that went on a little too long at times…).
Gord was very kind to our family, coming over to spontaneously cook a meal and share some wine. He explained cooking to me as if to say, “Come on man! It’s easy – anyone can do this!” My kids on a number of occasions would yell at me across the house, “Tato, your hockey friend is at the door again.”
My wife and I were also intrigued by Gord’s knowledge of the city’s history, our neighbourhood and all of the streets around us! Gord, I do regret, never taken you up on the local history tour that you kept offering! Talk about a opportunity missed, not just to learn from you, but to share the time and laughter together! May you be at peace where you are now, leading tours, cooking up a storm, playing hockey and waiting for the rest of us. Sincere condolences to your family who must surely be stunned in their loss. All the best, Buddy. Ben and Romola
LORI SINCLAIR
February 24, 2014 at 1:50 pm
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO GORD’S FAMILY. I WAS FORTUNATE TO HAVE WORKED WITH GORD OVER THE PAST 9 YEARS THROUGH OUR MEDICAL OFFICE. HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL IN OUR FIELD.
Skye Sylvain
February 24, 2014 at 2:12 pm
6 Dudley Crescent
Gord and I dated for the last two years. He was my best boyfriends ever. I love you Gord!
Patti Maher
February 24, 2014 at 2:27 pm
Gord was a colleague and great friend whom I will miss greatly. His keen sense of humour and wit could lighten the worst of days. I will miss our long chats while we were both on the road. He was an accomplished cook and wine aficionado and we enjoyed many wonderful meals together. My heart goes out to his family and my deepest condolences to Alex, Liam and Carla.
Betty Negash
February 24, 2014 at 2:40 pm
I know it has been a long time since I have seen or talk to you , but I don’t forget how kind & funny you were !! You will truly missed!!
May you rest in peace!!
I pray Carla, Alex & Liam find comfort in The Lord through this hard time !!
Betty( the babysitter from long time ago)
Susan Elgie
February 24, 2014 at 3:27 pm
I was saddened to hear of Gord’s passing today. He was a great parent to his two boys and challenged me to do my best at teaching Liam. He often stopped me on my walks around Old South and we would catch up on family matters.
Gaelen Merritt
February 24, 2014 at 4:10 pm
As a high school friend of Alex and Liam, Gord left an indelible impression on me and my personal growth. Gord was very much a John Keating figure to me. In a time of being fed idealistic career paths and concrete “black and white” expectations, Gord showed me that you could be an adult and you could still seize the day.
I’ll never forget hanging out in the basement in grade 12 with Alex and others, 3 am, and we just finished playing poker. Alex puts on a heavy metal record on Gord’s speakers and turntable. I didn’t know Gord all that well at the time, and my experience was that A) most parents slept at that time B) they didn’t want you to have friends over that late C) and they sure as hell didn’t want you making any noise at all! So when Gord marched down those stairs looking a little bit flustered I thought to myself, “Well, guess we’re gettin’ yelled at and I’m getting sent home right away…” But without a word, Gord walked over to that turntable and basically tripled the volume. It hurt MY ears. Then he made quick eye contact with all of us, nodded imperceptibly as if to say “amateurs,” and walked back up the stairs.
When that happened, probably for the first time I didn’t have the knee-jerk childlike reaction of, “Whoa, Z’s dad is so cool! I wish he was my dad!” I actually thought, “Wow. This guy is a functioning member of society that actually appears to still have fun! It’s actually possible! How do I tap into that?”
And I was lucky to know Gord, because he had this uncanny ability to take a genuine interest in your life and somehow relate to you – even 17 year old you. He could somehow punch through all that teenage “no one understands me” angst and you couldn’t help but open up to him about your outlook on life, and your hopes and dreams for the future. I think all of Alex’s friends could say the same – regardless of the home we came from or the future we wanted, Gord could relate to you and you could relate to Gord. He’d share honest and realistic advice about the real world completely devoid of judgment. It was so refreshing to hear from a guy that had “grown up” but still retained that “do what you feel is real” outlook. 10 years down the road, Alex and his friends are now chefs, auto mechanics, engineers, paramedics, students, athletes, cartographers, authors, nurses, social workers, army corporals and teachers… and I think all of us owe some credit to Gord for that.
And aside from all this sage advice and wisdom he imparted, Gord will go down as the only parent to have ever, and I mean ever, scored a goal on Nick Hambly in a road hockey game. Gord was an authority figure and a friend at a very important time for me to have both. Thanks Gord, Carpe Diem.
Robin Parmar
February 24, 2014 at 4:39 pm
I have nothing but fond memories of Gord’s dedication to friends and community, his deep love for his home town of London and its history… especially baseball history! I remember his smile, his laugh, and his sly wink. I remember his hard work, his love of family, and of music. Some might say I hardly knew him, and perhaps I knew only the best of him. But that is enough, for I have never forgotten him. My deep condolences to Carla, Liam, Alex, and all those left bereft.
Judy (Zelinski) Cats
February 24, 2014 at 4:58 pm
It is very diffecult to express my feelings at a time like this. I am very sorry for the loss of such a young vibrant man. Janet, Ed and Sharon, I remember many family get-togethers in Thunder Bay, good times, and I am sure you all will have wonderful memories that will be with you always. I didn’t know Gord in later years, but the picture is beautiful, and it says it all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Judy and Mike Cats
Mark Laundry
February 24, 2014 at 5:01 pm
I have known Gord for many years . We played Junior hockey together in Bancroft through our late teens and we participated in old timer hockey tournaments in Bancroft years later .
I shared many laughs and great memories with Big Z .
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family !
Morley Chertkoff
February 24, 2014 at 5:13 pm
I was deeply saddened to hear of Gord’s death. Sincere condolences from one of his classmates.
Bruce Adair
February 24, 2014 at 5:53 pm
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Gord’s passing last week. I will miss that positive outlook on life and his laugh.
Caroline Mitchell
February 24, 2014 at 6:35 pm
You were a wonderful son-in-law. You and Carla gave me two exceptional grandsons in Alex and Liam.
I will miss you at: London Knights games; family dinners;
summer cottages and apple picking. You were a good man.
Tracie Tattrie
February 24, 2014 at 7:07 pm
We all had so much fun over the years. I knew there would always be great food, stories, laughter. I remember making salmon cakes from scratch and knowing that Gord was coming for dinner they had to be excellent. Gord laughed at my jokes so he was always up there in my books, or maybe he was laughing at me? Thinking of sweet Carla and her beautiful boys. My heart aches, love you all.
Anonymous
February 24, 2014 at 8:15 pm
i didn’t know him terribly well and actually hadn’t seen him in ages. The last time might have been when he gave me a taxi ride from the airport (Checker) in 1995. We met through CHRW and the subsequent radio revolution that got all of the cool shows off the air. I just always thought he was the nicest guy and felt great that all these guys who were older than me accepted me. That whole scene had a huge impact on me. I couldn’t find the obit online but if you have the chance to let his family know that an old comrade from the radio days sends condolences and I have good memories of his rockabilly glasses and quick wit.
Jen and Loretta
February 24, 2014 at 9:21 pm
We have struggled to write this but reading all the condolences have been so perfect…Gord’s contagious laugh, his curiosity, his amazing abilities in the kitchen, his love for music and cars and his ability to talk to anyone. These depictions are so true and we were blessed to have met you.
We have had our music and air conditioning contests. You always won and would not turn yours on – thank you Carla, Liam and Alex for the few times you caved! Throughout the years we have shared so many laughs and good conversations. We will truly miss you.
Alex and Liam he spoke about you with so much pride. Our hearts go out to your family and friends who will miss him.
Deb Kiekens
February 24, 2014 at 9:51 pm
I first became friends with Carla and met the Zelinski family when the boys were oh so young – I think Liam was only 5 years old! Over the years I have experienced so many welcoming and fun times at the Zelinski household. Fabulous meals, excellent company with lots of humour – and, of course, Gord’s big, notorious laugh! I have so many wonderful memories and good times to carry with me. You will be missed, Gord.
Brian Laundry
February 24, 2014 at 10:11 pm
Hard to believe. So many good memories over 40 years. Sincere condolences to Alex, Liam, Carla and his whole family.
Paula Smith
February 24, 2014 at 10:34 pm
I first met Gord through his wife and my c-worker, later friend, Carla. The years passed with breaking of much bread and maybe a few wine corks; there was always room for one more at their table.
There were lots of laughs and tears shared with the Zelinski-Mitchell family and Gord was an integral part. I admired his knowledge of food, wine and music and always enjoyed a good laugh in his company; sometimes at my expense,sometimes at his. Gord, you will be greatly missed by all those who knew you. My thoughts are with his family and loved ones at this difficult time: Alex, Liam, Carla, Jan, Ed, Sharon, Caroline, Stephanie, Betty, Lily and anyone else I missed.
Joel Bradford
February 25, 2014 at 12:26 am
I was friends with his son, whom I’ve known since kindergarten. I wish the Zelinski family all the best, and my thoughts are with them.
Alex Zelinski
February 25, 2014 at 4:12 am
It breaks my heart to post this but what can I say he was the best father/friend/neighbor/hero to all of us. He had so much pride and joy in the journey we all call life. I will and always love him he was the best. Gord meant so much to Liam, Carla, and myself it is a real tragedy. He will be missed and loved by all and everybody he touched. I’m going to have a hard time watching baseball and hockey without him he was such a fan of sports and life. Always there to lend a hand or support and at times some witty criticism, in any form but mostly the kitchen, the room with a stereo or any game or playing field that he could share with one or all. I loved him so much and it’s just so sad that I can’t ever get a Gord hug or smile again. I LOVE YOU DAD AND I ALWAYS WILL!
Terri Breton
February 25, 2014 at 6:39 am
I am so sorry for your loss, I will be thinking of you all and keeping you in my prayers.
Mark Harrower
February 25, 2014 at 6:45 am
I’m so sorry to hear of Gord’s passing. We did radio together at UWO and before that we were restaurant colleagues in East London. Carla too. I left town many years ago but tried to catch up whenever I was around. Gord was a great Londoner. He had time for everybody and had an infectious enthusiam for his interests. My sympathies to his family and friends.
Anonymous
February 25, 2014 at 7:19 am
Baseball, hockey, music. “Are you new”?, loud shirts, Buddy Holly glasses. Sadly missed by McKinnon and Erin. Our hearts are with all who were blessed to have had Gord in their lives.
Anonymous
February 25, 2014 at 7:20 am
Baseball, hockey, music. “Are you new”?, loud shirts, Buddy Holly glasses. Sadly missed by McKinnon and Erin. Our hearts are with all who were blessed to have had Gord in their lives.
Phyllis and Don Purves
February 25, 2014 at 7:30 am
Jan and Ed – We send our love and sympathy at this time. We are so sad for your loss. We send a little prayer that you find strength in the family gathering. Love P & D Purves
Carolyn Smith
February 25, 2014 at 8:14 am
Carla, Alex and Liam.
Rick and I would like to send our deepest condolences to you at this very sad time.
-Keep your face always toward the sunshine, and the shadows will fall behind you – Walt Whitman
Barb Ramm
February 25, 2014 at 9:17 am
Dear Jan and Ed,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your son. I am sure that you have many memorable moments that will be keepsakes of your heart. Sincerely, Barb Ramm
Brian Martin
February 25, 2014 at 9:17 am
I knew Gord as one of the gang growing up in Bancroft, attending high school, playing sports, having fun. I lost touch and haven’t had contact with him for years.
Having read some of the other condolences, it seems I’ve been missing out. Gord was always a free spirit, and he obviously became a master at channelling that quality in ways that enriched the lives of others.
My sincere condolences to all Gord’s family and friends.
Andrea DeBlock-Pole
February 25, 2014 at 9:33 am
OH THAT LAUGH!!! IT was infectious! Carla, Alex and Liam, I am so very sorry for your loss, Gord was a good man.
May you find strength and love in each other-always.
Terry Kelly
February 25, 2014 at 11:13 am
I worked with Gord at Jb’s restaurant in London in the early 80’s and was fortunate enough to be invited to the wedding.
Gord was Gord and he didn’t try to be anyone different. I am so sorry to hear of his death. Although it has been 25 years since we saw each other it seems like yesterday.
Gord left an impression on everyone he met mostly because he took a genuine interest in learning who you were and what made you tick. See you on the other side Gord and thanks for the memories.
Scott Nagy
February 25, 2014 at 12:23 pm
It didn’t become real until I read these other condolences. Gord was one of a kind and he left mush too early. It’s great to see the positive influence he had on so many people, including myself. Carpe Diem indeed.
My deepest condolences to Carla, Liam, Alex, and family.
Les Cook and Donna Newell
February 25, 2014 at 1:58 pm
Our sympathy for your loss, we have made a donation in Gord’s memory to the Stevenson Memorial Hospital Foundation.
Katherine & Nick
February 25, 2014 at 2:40 pm
Carla, Liam & Alex,
We were so very sorry to hear about Gord. That laugh and wry sense of humour will not be forgotten. We love you! xo
Swanny
February 25, 2014 at 2:47 pm
I met Gord thru hockey, I was the new guy out and only new a couple of faces. As I got to became familiar with everyone over beers in subsequent weeks my impression of Gord was that he never shut up… Months into my first year of playing he cornered me at the table and invited me to dinner at his place. I hesitantly accepted and brought my wife to a relative strangers place for dinner. One of the best risks I took in my life! We were warmly greeted like old friends and our relationship grew from there. Moths later We had Gord and Carla over for dinner,he asked what I was making as he would like to bring wine along. Well he did bring wine and when the night was done left a special bottle as a thankyou. It was just a taste of his generosity. Once Gord knew where I lived he was apt to drop in or call to say I’m on my way and he seldom came empty handed. He may have made soup and thought we should have some,cheese from his favourite shop or cobs of corn from the side of the road. We would chat over a pint,he would engage in talk with the family then offer ride to Erica If she was headed out….a more generous man I have never met. Gord was part of a few of my family events here at the house because to me he was more than a friend,he was family. We are all saddened and dismayed here,as I write this I tremble with tears.Carla,Alex,Liam and Skye, I’m so sorry for your loss. I just wish the phone would ring and I could hear 1 more time….” Hi, it’s Gord! “
Sandy Morden
February 25, 2014 at 3:25 pm
Oh Gord – the infectious belly laugh that was one of your signatures. Your many words of wisdom, advice (always playing the army Dad) and just “told it like it was” with no reservations. Special and unique in that you took a deep interest in “people” and especially your friends and acquaintances. As a classmate at Fanshawe Radio you provided a nice balance for us – you working nights and raising a family while doing radio production at 3 am in the studio. With your satchel always over your shoulder and that Big Gordo smile. I am glad Emily and I ran in to you at the Knights playoff game last year. My daughter noted that you treated her like a real “adult” and spoke directly to her and took an interest. That was you!
Thanks for gracing us with you because we are definitely richer for knowing you. You will sure be missed by many. with love. RIP. Sandy and Miss Em.
David Dufton
February 25, 2014 at 3:35 pm
Dear Gord,
I wish I could be there. You were like a big brother to me when I was just starting out on my own.I will always remember that and cherish the times we had together.
I miss you already.
Duffbag
Ron and Mardi Turgeon
February 25, 2014 at 3:58 pm
Alex and Liam
We are saddened to hear of your Father’s passing and send our love and sympathy to both of you.
Gord’s personality was big! Gord did his best in life, and as a father, he did his best for you. We know that you will comfort each other and fill the empty space with great family memories that your father leaves behind.
Please know that we have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Erica
February 25, 2014 at 4:27 pm
Gord was one of the nicest men I’ve ever known. He was so thoughtful and generous all the time. When he came to visit, he was never empty handed, he always had one of his favorite treats for my family to share. I always loved when Gord came to visit, because when I talked to him, he would listen and genuinely care about what I was saying and always tried to help. Although I only knew Gord for a few years, I am ever so grateful that he came into my families life.
My family and I are all devastated to hear the news of Gords passing. He will be missed dearly.
Brian Timmins
February 25, 2014 at 6:11 pm
Carla, Liam, Alex. This is all too terrible to contemplate and words mean so little.Just know that Gord was a good man with a big heart who touched many lives. I feel lucky to have known him. You are all in my thoughts.
Dave Sheik
February 25, 2014 at 6:23 pm
My heart felt condolences go out to Gord’s family and friends.
Laurie Bursch
February 25, 2014 at 6:48 pm
I was one of the many people who knew Gord from his time at CHRW. You could always tell when he was around – there was no mistaking his laugh. Even now, years later, looking at this photo of him, I can hear that distinctive and entirely infectious laugh.
Gord, you will be missed. My condolences to all who loved you.
kim pryke
February 26, 2014 at 3:01 am
Alex, Liam and Carla, I feel very sad for your loss, wish it weren’t so. Love and prayers to all of you. He was a lovely man.
Jan& Ed
February 26, 2014 at 7:49 pm
Thank you to all for your kind words & donations. It is hard for all of us. Gord is now at peace. Thanks to all his friends from Bancroft, it was nice to see you all. Thanks to the family from Thunder Bay who came to be with us. Gord will be missed. We will miss the wonderful meals he prepared when he visited us in Alliston. Jan & Ed (parents)
Ma & Pa
February 26, 2014 at 8:02 pm
Hey big guy you up and left us without saying good bye. We will surely miss your visits, your compassion and love. Your reason for leaving is in question, but may you now be in peace. We will always love you and promise to look after Carla, Alex and Liam for as long as we can.
Mom and Dad
Danielle
February 27, 2014 at 10:41 am
I used to work with Gord, he was a great guy with lots of good stories to tell for the pure purpose of sharing knowledge or making someone smile… I am so sorry for your loss.
Gloria Mullett
February 27, 2014 at 1:35 pm
Words cannot express my deep sympathy for you having lost a son. My prayers are with you both.
Sharon Z
February 28, 2014 at 12:12 pm
This has been a tough week but it was made easier on Tuesday after seeing so many people that took the time to drop by at the memorial. It was fantastic to hear so many stories and so many ways that my brother’s life touched so many people. Gord, you will be missed but I know my life is better for having had you in it.
CHARLIE & ROBERTA CUZZOCREA
February 28, 2014 at 3:01 pm
Sometimes fate steals blessed people because they’ve filled their purpose early. Everyone plays their own song. They sing their story to the whole world & leave behind a melody of memories. Sometimes their song is cut short & ends too early but that doesn’t mean their music was any less sweet or that they left any less of an impression. When I think of Gord it is of a vibrant, energetic, happy-go-lucky guy always with a glowing & welcoming smile. Soar with the angels onto your next adventure. R.I.P. COUSIN
Love Roberta & Charlie
Steve and Bonnie Charbonneau
February 28, 2014 at 10:15 pm
To the boys, the Zelinski family and Carla, we send our deepest sympathies and condolences. I grew up with Gord through elementary and high school. We played hockey together in our teens. In high school we used to pinch Ed’s big maroon Marquis or Jan’s little yellow Ford Fiesta and cruise around Bancroft on weekend nights. We traveled all across southern Ontario. He was the Best Man at our wedding. There were, and are, a lot of great memories from the days of our youth. Living out west, we last saw Gord in London many years ago. He was then, as when we were kids, smiling and content. Truly sorry, it is everyone’s loss. Charbs
Cheryl Rodrigues
March 5, 2014 at 9:01 am
We were shocked & deeply saddened to hear of Gord´s passing away. I´m so glad we were able to spend sometime with you two years ago in Thunder Bay. It was nice to see your smile again, listen to your jokes & catching up on old times. You will truly be missed by all. Our thoughts & prayers are with you Ed, Jan, Sharon, Liam, Alex & Carla.
Miguel,Cheryl
Shawna & Melinda
Rodrigues
Tribute to Gord
The blow was hard, the shock severe; we never dreamed your death so near. But only those who love can tell the pain of parting without farewell. God gives us strength to face this blow, what it mean´t losing you, no one will know. To hear your voice, to see your smile, to sit and talk with you awhile; to be together in the same old way would be our dearest wish today. But loving memories never die as years roll on and days go by; in our hearts a memory is kept of the one we love and will never forget.
May you rest in peace.
Pat Ray
March 12, 2014 at 6:56 pm
To Jan, Ed, Sharon, Carla, Alex Liam and other family members:
We were deeply saddened by the news of Gord`s death. We often wondered where everyone has ended up after Cardiff. We think of everyone often.
Pat Ray, Kelly Spencer, Jodi Atkinson and families.
Linda (MacIsaac) McFarland
August 3, 2014 at 11:08 am
To Carla, Alex & Liam, I recently heard that Gord has moved on to heaven, so very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you all God’s comfort through this tough time. It’s been many years since I have seen Gord, but that smile I remember. Thinking of you all…Linda
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We will miss your laugh and culinary delights. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Liam and Alex and family.
I knew Gord many years ago when we were both volunteers at the campus radio station. I always appreciated his generosity and great sense of humour. My condolences to his family.
You were an amazing father, because of that no matter how difficult this is your sons get to walk away with your love, for now and for always.
My sympathies to all
Brought to immediate tears to think that this vibrant man with the infectious laugh has left us. Heart felt condolences to all who knew him. Hugs to Alex and Liam.
We have known Gord for many years though Scott and Gord’s hockey, Gord’s impromptu visits to our home when we lived in Old South, and the times we would sit and chat he was visiting a medical office in my office building as a pharma rep. He was always ready to share that laugh! Please accept our sincerest sympathies.
Alex, Liam and Carla:
We are so very sorry to hear of Gord’s passing. His smile was like the sun coming out. The world is a little darker now. Our thoughts are with you.
The Hambly’s
I knew Gord for more than 25 years, and I always enjoyed his company, his friendship and his great sense of humour. I will miss him.
My sincere condolences.
Alex, Liam, and Carla – I am saddened by the news of Gord’s passing. I truly enjoyed working with him so many years ago at Chancey’s – he was always positive, friendly, and a joy to work with. He will be missed…
I am truly saddened to learn of Gord’s passing. A bright light has gone out. I always felt better after I had visited with Gord and his positive joy of life in which he accomplished so much and gave back so easily.
My thoughts are with his extended family at this time of their loss.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Gord was a great man, and a great friend. I will miss him very much.
He was always so very generous and a joy to be around. He helped many people, and I truly enjoyed his companionship.
Oh Gord, what can I say? Well thank you for the family we shared, I will miss you more than I can say. That said we get to celebrate Alex and Liam, and on that note you were an exceptional father and I will love you for that for the rest of my time. Catch you later, xo
Gord was introduced to us by a good friend living on his street, several years ago, at an impromptu road hockey game on an unusually warm Easter Monday afternoon. At first I thought, “Man this guy seems cocky and…is he really teasing me?” Then I realized after the game that he was just doing his part for his team in getting under my skin!
As many have said, Gord was filled laughs and lots of good stories (some that went on a little too long at times…).
Gord was very kind to our family, coming over to spontaneously cook a meal and share some wine. He explained cooking to me as if to say, “Come on man! It’s easy – anyone can do this!” My kids on a number of occasions would yell at me across the house, “Tato, your hockey friend is at the door again.”
My wife and I were also intrigued by Gord’s knowledge of the city’s history, our neighbourhood and all of the streets around us! Gord, I do regret, never taken you up on the local history tour that you kept offering! Talk about a opportunity missed, not just to learn from you, but to share the time and laughter together! May you be at peace where you are now, leading tours, cooking up a storm, playing hockey and waiting for the rest of us. Sincere condolences to your family who must surely be stunned in their loss. All the best, Buddy. Ben and Romola
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO GORD’S FAMILY. I WAS FORTUNATE TO HAVE WORKED WITH GORD OVER THE PAST 9 YEARS THROUGH OUR MEDICAL OFFICE. HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL IN OUR FIELD.
6 Dudley Crescent
Gord and I dated for the last two years. He was my best boyfriends ever. I love you Gord!
Gord was a colleague and great friend whom I will miss greatly. His keen sense of humour and wit could lighten the worst of days. I will miss our long chats while we were both on the road. He was an accomplished cook and wine aficionado and we enjoyed many wonderful meals together. My heart goes out to his family and my deepest condolences to Alex, Liam and Carla.
I know it has been a long time since I have seen or talk to you , but I don’t forget how kind & funny you were !! You will truly missed!!
May you rest in peace!!
I pray Carla, Alex & Liam find comfort in The Lord through this hard time !!
Betty( the babysitter from long time ago)
I was saddened to hear of Gord’s passing today. He was a great parent to his two boys and challenged me to do my best at teaching Liam. He often stopped me on my walks around Old South and we would catch up on family matters.
As a high school friend of Alex and Liam, Gord left an indelible impression on me and my personal growth. Gord was very much a John Keating figure to me. In a time of being fed idealistic career paths and concrete “black and white” expectations, Gord showed me that you could be an adult and you could still seize the day.
I’ll never forget hanging out in the basement in grade 12 with Alex and others, 3 am, and we just finished playing poker. Alex puts on a heavy metal record on Gord’s speakers and turntable. I didn’t know Gord all that well at the time, and my experience was that A) most parents slept at that time B) they didn’t want you to have friends over that late C) and they sure as hell didn’t want you making any noise at all! So when Gord marched down those stairs looking a little bit flustered I thought to myself, “Well, guess we’re gettin’ yelled at and I’m getting sent home right away…” But without a word, Gord walked over to that turntable and basically tripled the volume. It hurt MY ears. Then he made quick eye contact with all of us, nodded imperceptibly as if to say “amateurs,” and walked back up the stairs.
When that happened, probably for the first time I didn’t have the knee-jerk childlike reaction of, “Whoa, Z’s dad is so cool! I wish he was my dad!” I actually thought, “Wow. This guy is a functioning member of society that actually appears to still have fun! It’s actually possible! How do I tap into that?”
And I was lucky to know Gord, because he had this uncanny ability to take a genuine interest in your life and somehow relate to you – even 17 year old you. He could somehow punch through all that teenage “no one understands me” angst and you couldn’t help but open up to him about your outlook on life, and your hopes and dreams for the future. I think all of Alex’s friends could say the same – regardless of the home we came from or the future we wanted, Gord could relate to you and you could relate to Gord. He’d share honest and realistic advice about the real world completely devoid of judgment. It was so refreshing to hear from a guy that had “grown up” but still retained that “do what you feel is real” outlook. 10 years down the road, Alex and his friends are now chefs, auto mechanics, engineers, paramedics, students, athletes, cartographers, authors, nurses, social workers, army corporals and teachers… and I think all of us owe some credit to Gord for that.
And aside from all this sage advice and wisdom he imparted, Gord will go down as the only parent to have ever, and I mean ever, scored a goal on Nick Hambly in a road hockey game. Gord was an authority figure and a friend at a very important time for me to have both. Thanks Gord, Carpe Diem.
I have nothing but fond memories of Gord’s dedication to friends and community, his deep love for his home town of London and its history… especially baseball history! I remember his smile, his laugh, and his sly wink. I remember his hard work, his love of family, and of music. Some might say I hardly knew him, and perhaps I knew only the best of him. But that is enough, for I have never forgotten him. My deep condolences to Carla, Liam, Alex, and all those left bereft.
It is very diffecult to express my feelings at a time like this. I am very sorry for the loss of such a young vibrant man. Janet, Ed and Sharon, I remember many family get-togethers in Thunder Bay, good times, and I am sure you all will have wonderful memories that will be with you always. I didn’t know Gord in later years, but the picture is beautiful, and it says it all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Judy and Mike Cats
I have known Gord for many years . We played Junior hockey together in Bancroft through our late teens and we participated in old timer hockey tournaments in Bancroft years later .
I shared many laughs and great memories with Big Z .
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family !
I was deeply saddened to hear of Gord’s death. Sincere condolences from one of his classmates.
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Gord’s passing last week. I will miss that positive outlook on life and his laugh.
You were a wonderful son-in-law. You and Carla gave me two exceptional grandsons in Alex and Liam.
I will miss you at: London Knights games; family dinners;
summer cottages and apple picking. You were a good man.
We all had so much fun over the years. I knew there would always be great food, stories, laughter. I remember making salmon cakes from scratch and knowing that Gord was coming for dinner they had to be excellent. Gord laughed at my jokes so he was always up there in my books, or maybe he was laughing at me? Thinking of sweet Carla and her beautiful boys. My heart aches, love you all.
i didn’t know him terribly well and actually hadn’t seen him in ages. The last time might have been when he gave me a taxi ride from the airport (Checker) in 1995. We met through CHRW and the subsequent radio revolution that got all of the cool shows off the air. I just always thought he was the nicest guy and felt great that all these guys who were older than me accepted me. That whole scene had a huge impact on me. I couldn’t find the obit online but if you have the chance to let his family know that an old comrade from the radio days sends condolences and I have good memories of his rockabilly glasses and quick wit.
We have struggled to write this but reading all the condolences have been so perfect…Gord’s contagious laugh, his curiosity, his amazing abilities in the kitchen, his love for music and cars and his ability to talk to anyone. These depictions are so true and we were blessed to have met you.
We have had our music and air conditioning contests. You always won and would not turn yours on – thank you Carla, Liam and Alex for the few times you caved! Throughout the years we have shared so many laughs and good conversations. We will truly miss you.
Alex and Liam he spoke about you with so much pride. Our hearts go out to your family and friends who will miss him.
I first became friends with Carla and met the Zelinski family when the boys were oh so young – I think Liam was only 5 years old! Over the years I have experienced so many welcoming and fun times at the Zelinski household. Fabulous meals, excellent company with lots of humour – and, of course, Gord’s big, notorious laugh! I have so many wonderful memories and good times to carry with me. You will be missed, Gord.
Hard to believe. So many good memories over 40 years. Sincere condolences to Alex, Liam, Carla and his whole family.
I first met Gord through his wife and my c-worker, later friend, Carla. The years passed with breaking of much bread and maybe a few wine corks; there was always room for one more at their table.
There were lots of laughs and tears shared with the Zelinski-Mitchell family and Gord was an integral part. I admired his knowledge of food, wine and music and always enjoyed a good laugh in his company; sometimes at my expense,sometimes at his. Gord, you will be greatly missed by all those who knew you. My thoughts are with his family and loved ones at this difficult time: Alex, Liam, Carla, Jan, Ed, Sharon, Caroline, Stephanie, Betty, Lily and anyone else I missed.
I was friends with his son, whom I’ve known since kindergarten. I wish the Zelinski family all the best, and my thoughts are with them.
It breaks my heart to post this but what can I say he was the best father/friend/neighbor/hero to all of us. He had so much pride and joy in the journey we all call life. I will and always love him he was the best. Gord meant so much to Liam, Carla, and myself it is a real tragedy. He will be missed and loved by all and everybody he touched. I’m going to have a hard time watching baseball and hockey without him he was such a fan of sports and life. Always there to lend a hand or support and at times some witty criticism, in any form but mostly the kitchen, the room with a stereo or any game or playing field that he could share with one or all. I loved him so much and it’s just so sad that I can’t ever get a Gord hug or smile again. I LOVE YOU DAD AND I ALWAYS WILL!
I am so sorry for your loss, I will be thinking of you all and keeping you in my prayers.
I’m so sorry to hear of Gord’s passing. We did radio together at UWO and before that we were restaurant colleagues in East London. Carla too. I left town many years ago but tried to catch up whenever I was around. Gord was a great Londoner. He had time for everybody and had an infectious enthusiam for his interests. My sympathies to his family and friends.
Baseball, hockey, music. “Are you new”?, loud shirts, Buddy Holly glasses. Sadly missed by McKinnon and Erin. Our hearts are with all who were blessed to have had Gord in their lives.
Baseball, hockey, music. “Are you new”?, loud shirts, Buddy Holly glasses. Sadly missed by McKinnon and Erin. Our hearts are with all who were blessed to have had Gord in their lives.
Jan and Ed – We send our love and sympathy at this time. We are so sad for your loss. We send a little prayer that you find strength in the family gathering. Love P & D Purves
Carla, Alex and Liam.
Rick and I would like to send our deepest condolences to you at this very sad time.
-Keep your face always toward the sunshine, and the shadows will fall behind you – Walt Whitman
Dear Jan and Ed,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your son. I am sure that you have many memorable moments that will be keepsakes of your heart. Sincerely, Barb Ramm
I knew Gord as one of the gang growing up in Bancroft, attending high school, playing sports, having fun. I lost touch and haven’t had contact with him for years.
Having read some of the other condolences, it seems I’ve been missing out. Gord was always a free spirit, and he obviously became a master at channelling that quality in ways that enriched the lives of others.
My sincere condolences to all Gord’s family and friends.
OH THAT LAUGH!!! IT was infectious! Carla, Alex and Liam, I am so very sorry for your loss, Gord was a good man.
May you find strength and love in each other-always.
I worked with Gord at Jb’s restaurant in London in the early 80’s and was fortunate enough to be invited to the wedding.
Gord was Gord and he didn’t try to be anyone different. I am so sorry to hear of his death. Although it has been 25 years since we saw each other it seems like yesterday.
Gord left an impression on everyone he met mostly because he took a genuine interest in learning who you were and what made you tick. See you on the other side Gord and thanks for the memories.
It didn’t become real until I read these other condolences. Gord was one of a kind and he left mush too early. It’s great to see the positive influence he had on so many people, including myself. Carpe Diem indeed.
My deepest condolences to Carla, Liam, Alex, and family.
Our sympathy for your loss, we have made a donation in Gord’s memory to the Stevenson Memorial Hospital Foundation.
Carla, Liam & Alex,
We were so very sorry to hear about Gord. That laugh and wry sense of humour will not be forgotten. We love you! xo
I met Gord thru hockey, I was the new guy out and only new a couple of faces. As I got to became familiar with everyone over beers in subsequent weeks my impression of Gord was that he never shut up… Months into my first year of playing he cornered me at the table and invited me to dinner at his place. I hesitantly accepted and brought my wife to a relative strangers place for dinner. One of the best risks I took in my life! We were warmly greeted like old friends and our relationship grew from there. Moths later We had Gord and Carla over for dinner,he asked what I was making as he would like to bring wine along. Well he did bring wine and when the night was done left a special bottle as a thankyou. It was just a taste of his generosity. Once Gord knew where I lived he was apt to drop in or call to say I’m on my way and he seldom came empty handed. He may have made soup and thought we should have some,cheese from his favourite shop or cobs of corn from the side of the road. We would chat over a pint,he would engage in talk with the family then offer ride to Erica If she was headed out….a more generous man I have never met. Gord was part of a few of my family events here at the house because to me he was more than a friend,he was family. We are all saddened and dismayed here,as I write this I tremble with tears.Carla,Alex,Liam and Skye, I’m so sorry for your loss. I just wish the phone would ring and I could hear 1 more time….” Hi, it’s Gord! “
Oh Gord – the infectious belly laugh that was one of your signatures. Your many words of wisdom, advice (always playing the army Dad) and just “told it like it was” with no reservations. Special and unique in that you took a deep interest in “people” and especially your friends and acquaintances. As a classmate at Fanshawe Radio you provided a nice balance for us – you working nights and raising a family while doing radio production at 3 am in the studio. With your satchel always over your shoulder and that Big Gordo smile. I am glad Emily and I ran in to you at the Knights playoff game last year. My daughter noted that you treated her like a real “adult” and spoke directly to her and took an interest. That was you!
Thanks for gracing us with you because we are definitely richer for knowing you. You will sure be missed by many. with love. RIP. Sandy and Miss Em.
Dear Gord,
I wish I could be there. You were like a big brother to me when I was just starting out on my own.I will always remember that and cherish the times we had together.
I miss you already.
Duffbag
Alex and Liam
We are saddened to hear of your Father’s passing and send our love and sympathy to both of you.
Gord’s personality was big! Gord did his best in life, and as a father, he did his best for you. We know that you will comfort each other and fill the empty space with great family memories that your father leaves behind.
Please know that we have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Gord was one of the nicest men I’ve ever known. He was so thoughtful and generous all the time. When he came to visit, he was never empty handed, he always had one of his favorite treats for my family to share. I always loved when Gord came to visit, because when I talked to him, he would listen and genuinely care about what I was saying and always tried to help. Although I only knew Gord for a few years, I am ever so grateful that he came into my families life.
My family and I are all devastated to hear the news of Gords passing. He will be missed dearly.
Carla, Liam, Alex. This is all too terrible to contemplate and words mean so little.Just know that Gord was a good man with a big heart who touched many lives. I feel lucky to have known him. You are all in my thoughts.
My heart felt condolences go out to Gord’s family and friends.
I was one of the many people who knew Gord from his time at CHRW. You could always tell when he was around – there was no mistaking his laugh. Even now, years later, looking at this photo of him, I can hear that distinctive and entirely infectious laugh.
Gord, you will be missed. My condolences to all who loved you.
Alex, Liam and Carla, I feel very sad for your loss, wish it weren’t so. Love and prayers to all of you. He was a lovely man.
Thank you to all for your kind words & donations. It is hard for all of us. Gord is now at peace. Thanks to all his friends from Bancroft, it was nice to see you all. Thanks to the family from Thunder Bay who came to be with us. Gord will be missed. We will miss the wonderful meals he prepared when he visited us in Alliston. Jan & Ed (parents)
Hey big guy you up and left us without saying good bye. We will surely miss your visits, your compassion and love. Your reason for leaving is in question, but may you now be in peace. We will always love you and promise to look after Carla, Alex and Liam for as long as we can.
Mom and Dad
I used to work with Gord, he was a great guy with lots of good stories to tell for the pure purpose of sharing knowledge or making someone smile… I am so sorry for your loss.
Words cannot express my deep sympathy for you having lost a son. My prayers are with you both.
This has been a tough week but it was made easier on Tuesday after seeing so many people that took the time to drop by at the memorial. It was fantastic to hear so many stories and so many ways that my brother’s life touched so many people. Gord, you will be missed but I know my life is better for having had you in it.
Sometimes fate steals blessed people because they’ve filled their purpose early. Everyone plays their own song. They sing their story to the whole world & leave behind a melody of memories. Sometimes their song is cut short & ends too early but that doesn’t mean their music was any less sweet or that they left any less of an impression. When I think of Gord it is of a vibrant, energetic, happy-go-lucky guy always with a glowing & welcoming smile. Soar with the angels onto your next adventure. R.I.P. COUSIN
Love Roberta & Charlie
To the boys, the Zelinski family and Carla, we send our deepest sympathies and condolences. I grew up with Gord through elementary and high school. We played hockey together in our teens. In high school we used to pinch Ed’s big maroon Marquis or Jan’s little yellow Ford Fiesta and cruise around Bancroft on weekend nights. We traveled all across southern Ontario. He was the Best Man at our wedding. There were, and are, a lot of great memories from the days of our youth. Living out west, we last saw Gord in London many years ago. He was then, as when we were kids, smiling and content. Truly sorry, it is everyone’s loss. Charbs
We were shocked & deeply saddened to hear of Gord´s passing away. I´m so glad we were able to spend sometime with you two years ago in Thunder Bay. It was nice to see your smile again, listen to your jokes & catching up on old times. You will truly be missed by all. Our thoughts & prayers are with you Ed, Jan, Sharon, Liam, Alex & Carla.
Miguel,Cheryl
Shawna & Melinda
Rodrigues
Tribute to Gord
The blow was hard, the shock severe; we never dreamed your death so near. But only those who love can tell the pain of parting without farewell. God gives us strength to face this blow, what it mean´t losing you, no one will know. To hear your voice, to see your smile, to sit and talk with you awhile; to be together in the same old way would be our dearest wish today. But loving memories never die as years roll on and days go by; in our hearts a memory is kept of the one we love and will never forget.
May you rest in peace.
To Jan, Ed, Sharon, Carla, Alex Liam and other family members:
We were deeply saddened by the news of Gord`s death. We often wondered where everyone has ended up after Cardiff. We think of everyone often.
Pat Ray, Kelly Spencer, Jodi Atkinson and families.
To Carla, Alex & Liam, I recently heard that Gord has moved on to heaven, so very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you all God’s comfort through this tough time. It’s been many years since I have seen Gord, but that smile I remember. Thinking of you all…Linda