Ted Kostecki
Died: December 29, 2010 | Place: residence
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KOSTECKI, Teodor Marius (Ted)
Peacefully at his home on Wednesday, December 29, 2010, Ted Kostecki of London in his 70th year. Beloved husband of Shelley Kostecki. Cherished father of Lisa Kostecki and her partner Andrew Wylie both of Vancouver. Uncle of Jill Mackereth and Brian Olszewski of Toronto. Predeceased by his sister Diana Mackereth and parents Mikael and Katerina Kostecki. Grateful thanks for the compassionate care of the Peritoneal Dialysis Unit at Victoria Hospital, CCAC, ComCare nurses, Hospice of London and St. Elizabeth Home Care. Ted was a loving husband, proud father and loyal friend who could always be counted on for support and encouragement. Ted lived life to the fullest and willingly contributed his wealth of knowledge and experience with kindness and wit. In his 30 years as a journalist, radio and TV reporter, television editor and producer, he was always respected for his integrity and expertise. As the First St. Andrew’s United Church Community Outreach Co-ordinator and Fund Raiser he fulfilled his role with quiet efficiency and dedication. Ted was past chair of London/Middlesex Presbytery. He was an active member of the National United Church General Council and was voted onto the National United Church Executive Council. He was a member of the Advisory Board to Studies in Family Medicine. Friends will be received by the family from 2:00-5:00pm on Saturday, January 1, 2011 at the A. Millard George Funeral Home, 60 Ridout Street South, London. The funeral service will be conducted at First St. Andrew’s United Church, 350 Queens Avenue, London on Sunday, January 2, 2011 at 3:00pm with Reverend Dr. David McKane and Reverend Dr. Susan Shelstad officiating. As an expression of sympathy, memorial donations may be made to the Canadian Diabetes Foundation, 442 Adelaide Street North, London, Ontario, N6B 3H8 or the Heart and Stroke Foundation 150-633 Colborne Street, London, Ontario, N6B 2V3 or to the Kidney Foundation of Canada, 201 Queens Avenue, Suite 202, London, Ontario, N6A 1J1. Online condolences accepted at www.amgfh.com
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Shelley,
I am so sorry to hear about Ted. I know he has not been well and it has been difficult for everyone. You have my heartfelt sympathy.
I am in Denver right now and will not be able to be at the service but my thoughts will be with you.
Bette
Shelley & Lisa: Our hearts go out to you as you mourn the loss of a truly wonderful man. Ted will always be for me that kind, generous, helpful face of not only the church community but the broader London community.
With much love,
Jo Ann Silcox
Shelley and Lisa
We were sad to hear of Ted’s passing.Thinking of you at this very difficult time. Remembering a fine man who will be truly missed.
Please accept my condolences at this difficult and trying time. I worked with Ted at the tv station when I first moved to London. He was a talented and funny person and will be missed.
Dear Shelley and Lisa,
I was so very sad to hear of Ted’s passing. He was always a strong voice in the newsroom and a genuinely funny man.
I remember clearly just before Lisa was born Ted saying that, while Shelley’s life would change, he didn’t think his would. That was until his beautiful daughter was born and Ted fell in love and became a besotted dad.
He will be missed.
Shelley and Lisa
Thinking of you at this very difficult time. Sending our love and hope that it gives you some small comfort. xoW
Dear Shelley & Lisa
Our sincere sympathies to you on the loss of your dear husband and father. What a wonderful man to call a friend. He left such an important legacy because of all he did for others. He was so very proud of both of you, as you were always of him. You are a wonderful family, so highly respected by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely
Gwyn & Carol, Jennifer, Jeff, Lynn & families
Shelley and Lisa,
My heart goes out to you both on the loss of Ted. I so enjoyed working with him at FSA, and found in him a supportive, encouraging colleague and friend. Indeed “Well done, thou good and faithful servant” fits Ted to a “T”. As the journey you have all been on was difficult and painful for you, please know that Ted is now healthier and more alive than he has ever been, held in the heart of the Beloved, who will never let Ted, or you, go.
Peace be with you.
Dear Shelley and Lisa, I was sad to find out through the Calumet email that Ted has passes away. As I read the obituary notice, I was happy to read what a wonderful person he became. At camp he was a quiet person, who was thoughtful and caring and had the respect of many people. Since learning that Ted was very ill in early December, I have thought of him often, and hope he did not suffer. Please accept my sympathy in the loss of your husband and father, and a person who I am sure was a good friend to many. Mary Park
Dear Shelley and Lisa
I came to Calumet in 1963 as Ted’s assistant, so it’s fair to say he set me off on a career and life-long interest in cooking that helped pay my way through school. As I’m sure he did in later life, he set high standards for the quality and service we gave the campers and staff.
I’m sorry we have not been in touch for many years, as I valued his friendship and warmth. My sincere condolences on your loss.
We have not been in touch for many years, but want to send sympathy to you at this sad time. Doug and I remember visiting your home with Doug’s Mother, Elsie. The years pass quickly. We are still in the same Strathroy home and enjoying retirement and 6 wonderful grandchildren. Sincerely, Sharon Statham
Dear Shelley,
My most sincere condolences on your loss.I haven’t attended many ETS functions lately but do have so many fond memories of ETS.I managed to get South for awhile so hope we’ll have lots of sunshine to make me feel better.Please know my prayers are with you.
Margaret
Dear Shelley and Lisa,
I read a poem recently and I would like to share part of it with you and Lisa.
I Am Always With You
When I am gone, release me, let me go.
But be thankful we had so many good years.
I gave you my love, and you can only guess
How much you’ve given me in happiness
So grieve for me a while, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
That it is only for a while that we must part,
So treasure the memories within your heart,
I won’t be far away for life goes on.
Though you can’t see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you’ll hear
All my love around you soft and clear.
Thanks again for all the great memories and our condolences go out to you and Lisa.
Shelley and Lisa…my thoughts go out to you in this difficult time of Ted’s passing…I worked with him for many years at the TV station and will always remember his great sense of humour…
Dear Shelley and Lisa,
I was saddened to learn of Ted’s passing. He was quite the guy. I remember our escapades at Calumet and those crazy car rides to and from Minden Ontario and around the country. Ted and I used to share a love of automobiles and speed. What a sense of humour he had with that clint in his eye. He will be missed by those who knew him. My condolences.
I’m sorry to hear of Ted’s passing. Ted was a genuine guy, always generous with his humour, insight and skills, and truly good at whatever he chose to do. Ted was a mentor to many of us in the TV business during our time at CFPL. And, he had the hero status of having been a part of the ’72 Canada Russia Hockey Summit !
Ted and I worked on a TV special years ago, created to explain to Canadians what the newly created GST was all about. The quirks of the tax’s structure were fodder for Ted’s wit and insight, which is why the feature won a National Can Pro Award.
Ted will be missed, but fondly and respectfully remembered as a fine broadcaster and a very good soul.
Dear Shelley & Lisa – I was deeply saddened to read of Ted’s passing. Although it has been many years since we have seen each other or spoken-I think of all of you often and tell my son what great and gracious people you were when I was younger. I know having Ted & you in my life was definately a huge & positive influence on me and helped me become the person I am. He will surely be missed by all. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dear Shelley & Family,
Tim and I wish to give you our deepest sympathy on the loss of Ted. He was a wonderful person who has left his mark on many and will not be forgotten. Tim is in the hospital and unfortunately cannot attend but wanted you to know he was thinking about you all during this time of grief.
Donna
Ted was a good friend to me and my future wife Pamela when we three worked at CFPL TV in the 1980’s.
He was a great newsman. He spoke softly but persuasively. But what I remember most was Ted’s kindness and his wit. At times after the 11 o’clock news we would go out for a pizza and shoot the breeze. He was always fun to be with.
Pam recalls having dinner at Ted’s and Shelly’s once, and that Shelly made such a delicious dish in a clay baker that Pam immediately went out and bought one.
We lost touch when I moved away, but we were delighted when Ted and Shelly came to our wedding.. on December 29th, 1989. On our 21st anniversary Ted passed away, and I was very saddened to learn of it today. It is New Year’s Eve.. Our thoughts go out to Shelly and Lisa, and at this moment Pam and I are raising a toast to the memory of our friend, Ted.
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I am so very sorry to learn of Ted’s death. Whenever I passed by his office at FSA I’d turn my head and he was ready to say a few words or get into a conversation – always with a droll or witty flavour adding to the topic of the moment.
Ted seemed to have time for what was needed, whether it was a conversation or help with finding a book or a person. He had a grounded presence which always calmed me, and I will miss him.
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you, Shelley and Lisa.
Dear Shelley and Lisa,
On behalf of the members of the UWO Centre for Studies in Family Medicine Advisory Board, may I offer to you and your family our deepest sympathy. Ted has been a valued and loved member of our Board who brought his insights and gentleness to bear on every issue under discussion. There have been countless moments when Ted would remind us of the importance of the bond of mutual care and respect that we owe to others in our conversations, work and research. These moments reflected the heart of his commitment to love the Neighbour, everywhere. His patient and quiet faith has been an inspiration to us all and his contributions to the Centre have made a great difference. We will miss him.
Our hearts break for you.
Most Sincerely,
Mary Shamley
Chair, Advisory Board
The Centre For Studies in Family Medicine at The University of Western Ontario
Dear Shelley and Lisa,
My thoughts and prayers are with you both at this time.
Laurie
It is with deepest sympathy to Ted’s family that I write this message. I had the pleasure to serve on the GCE of the UCC with Ted and to share a table group where I came to know his commitment, integrity, and wonderful sense of humour. He will be truly missed in that circle!
Blessings to all!
It’s been almost 50 years since I knew and worked with Ted at Camp Calumet in Haliburton, Ontario. His wit and sense of humour were second to none, and he was always available to help on any tasks. I remember especially his work in the Camp kitchen – Ted, Ray, and Zeke kept the place running, even with the chief cook(s) absent or AWOL. Ted was one of those people who light up your life. Sincere condolences to Ted’s family and many friends.
Neil O’Donnell, Fort McMurray, AB.
I am so sorry to hear about Ted. I met him when I first started work at the TV station in 1989. He was a great guy and I enjoyed working with him. My thoughts are with you.
We are truly sorry to hear about your loss. We were not there today, as much as we wanted to be. You’re an important part of our lives, and when you’re sad, we’re sad.
Remebering the Ted who was the fabulous cook at Camp Calumet so many years ago. Besides making camp food palatable he was always kind and full of fun. Thinking of Ted and his family today.
Dear Shelley,
We want you to know that our thoughts of sincere sympathy are with you and your family at this time of sadness.
With fond memories of happier times.
Love Helen and John
Our memories of Ted date back to the newsroom at CFPL-TV . He was a respected and talented news reporter and Mark spent many hours with Ted covering news stories in London and area. Then our paths crossed again many times at FSA. We’ll remember his sincerity in promoting the important work of the congregation. Members of the Jane Austen Society remember him too with appreciation and how he kindly helped us to book the parlour for our meetings. We miss him.
Our deepest sympathy to wife Shelley, daughter Lisa and family. God’s blessings and peace during this difficult time.
Nancy Johnson & Mark McCurdy
Eileen and Matthew
Shelley:
One of the girls let me know about this unfortunate situation. Although circumstances have been such that I haven’t seen you for years, you were both special people to me and I want to let you know that I feel for you at this time.
It’s been interesting for me to see the many and varied condolences that have been sent in. They give me a deeper understanding of Ted’s life and how much he will be missed in his community.
All the best
John
Dear Shelley & Lisa,
Please accept my condolences on Ted’s passing. I had the pleasure of working with him on some national church projects and thoroughly enjoyed getting to know him. He later facilitated my baptizing my nephews at FSA which was a real gift to my family so divided by denominational boundaries. He was a kind and generous man who will be greatly missed.
Peace,
Teresa
My family met Ted at Camp Calumet. Ted started at camp as a kitchen boy, but became head cook at 19. My father formed a friendship with Ted over the summers. In the fall of 1962, our family was settling back into the routine in Braeside on the Ottawa River; 6 kids going to school, mother pregnant with her 7th child, Dad busy with his car business. Late one afternoon Ted presented himself at our door and asked Dad if he could live with us. Dad checked with mom (Barb) who said, well sure. Ted moved into a small bedroom on the 3rd floor. He attended grade 13 in Arnprior and worked in Dad,s garage. He became a member of our family and when Jim and Barb’s 7th child was born on Jan 11, 1963, they named him Ted. When Ted left to go to university he knew he always had a home where he would be welcomed as one of us and we stayed connected. So much more to tell. So grateful for the visit I had with him in December. I will miss Ted and always be thankful for his friendship.
Dear Shelley and Lisa, Ted was a fine person and set an example of what it is to be a journalist. He was passionate and professional and always had time to take a newcomer under his wing. I was one of the newcomers at CFPL-TV in 1984, and worked with him for 13 years. My condolences. Ian Caldwell
I am very sad to learn this sad news. I served with him on the General Council Executive of the United Church of Canada. I will keep Ted’s family and friends in my prayers.
Dear Kostecki family,
Please accept my sincere condolence on the loss of Ted.
Ted and I became friends at the Arnprior Assembly of the UCC several years ago. Our rooms were across the hall from each other and he would wake me up each morning. We took long walks around the town he knew so well and he shared many memories of his time there.
We talked about our careers as former journalists and our love for the UCC and serving as lay volunteers.
I admired and respected him and felt a kinship with him. Later, I was happy to see him at other meetings and we always had good cheerful visits.
I am sorry that he is gone but I will hold on to those rich memories. You have many, many more special memories and I know he will live forever in our hearts.
May God grant you the courage and strength as you deal with your loss.
Shelly – I’m so very sorry I was unable to attend Ted’s visitation and funeral – I still can’t believe he’s gone. I laughed when I realized after reading this morning’s tribute to Ted, that he looks different because there is no beard! I couldn’t figure out what it was! It was a pleasure to know and work with Ted. I send you my heartfelt condolences and hope the ache of his loss will one day be replaced with warm and happy memories. sending best wishes, Julie (Sandiland) Simpson
I was a public school classmate of Theodore’s in Long Branch. What I remeber the most is that he pitched “hardball” for the Faustina pee-wee team, and had the most wicked curve I’d ever seen.
I’m sorry to hear of his death, but pleased to read that he led such a full life.
I am sorry to hear of Ted’s passing — I enjoyed his sense of humour during the early 1960’s at Camp Calumet and visited with Ted later in Arnprior as well with fond memories of his Austin Healey — I felt fortunate to run into him again when I was at UWO and spent a very pleasant evening with him and Shelley — Please accept my belated condolences as I just discovered this will going over old times at Calumet with a joint friend. He was one of the guys who became a marker in my life as a person displaying grand humour and an independence towards life — Thank you Ted for being part of my life.